Showing posts with label Reduce stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reduce stress. Show all posts

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Why you should adopt a pet: Reducing Stress Part 5


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Have you ever heard that pet owners live happier, longer lives?  If this is the case I should live to be 200+ as I have a zoo.

I'm going to talk about a few things before I give you the "reasoning" to why owning a pet will reduce stress in your life.  (I, of course, have to add that my puppy causes me much stress but it is the "good" stress and I wouldn't change it for anything).



There is nothing better than a loving family.  You come home at the end of the day and they are always happy to see you.  This works great as long as their day was stress free.  

No matter what happens during the day your dog or cat will always look at you as their hero.  


Imagine walking into the room and seeing this
(she is sleeping like this)



You want laughter in your life (which we all know is a great stress reducer):  Adopt a pet.  As with people they all have their own personalities, some more entertaining than others.....so I suggest adopting a bunch (just kidding, maybe).  






For example:  Our puppy loves to "talk" to the air; she will talk for about one minute to the air (still haven't figured this one out).  When she doesn't get her way she throws herself on the ground and pouts like a baby (so me, liking entertainment, will sometimes not let her have her way so I can watch the tantrum).  

All of my "pets" greet me at the door (and yes I have cats also).  When they hear the garage door go up...they are in the living room waiting to greet me.  I do like to think it's because they missed me so very much...but I think it is the treats they all get when I get home, but no matter what the reason they are happy to see me and no matter what happened during the day...it is forgotten the minute I walk in the door.

I'm allergic.  (Whatever...hehe my husband told me that about cats when we met....not so much) If you are truly allergic talk to your Doctor....they have shots/pills/drops for this.  

So if I haven't convinced you....Here's what WebMD says about this subject:
Allergy Fighters
"The old thinking was that if your family had a pet, the children were more likely to become allergic to the pet. And if you came from an allergy-prone family, pets should be avoided," says researcher James E. Gern, MD, a pediatrician at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, in the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology.
However, a growing number of studies have suggested that kids growing up in a home with "furred animals" -- whether it's a pet cat or dog, or on a farm and exposed to large animals -- will have less risk of allergies and asthma, he tells WebMD.
In his recent study, Gern analyzed the blood of babies immediately after birth and one year later. He was looking for evidence of an allergic reaction, immunity changes, and for reactions to bacteria in the environment.
If a dog lived in the home, infants were less likely to show evidence of pet allergies -- 19% vs. 33%. They also were less likely to have eczema, a common allergy skin condition that causes red patches and itching. In addition, they had higher levels of some immune system chemicals -- a sign of stronger immune system activation.  "Dogs are dirty animals, and this suggests that babies who have greater exposure to dirt and allergens have a stronger immune system," Gern says. 
Good for Mind and Soul
Pet owners with AIDS are far less likely to suffer from depression than those without pets. "The benefit is especially pronounced when people are strongly attached to their pets," says researcher Judith Siegel, PhD.
In one study, stockbrokers with high blood pressure who adopted a cat or dog had lower blood pressure readings in stressful situations than did people without pets.
People in stress mode get into a "state of dis-ease," in which harmful chemicals like cortisol and norepinephrine can negatively affect the immune system, says Blair Justice, PhD, a psychology professor at the University of Texas School of Public Health and author of Who Gets Sick: How Beliefs, Moods, and Thoughts Affect Your Health.
Studies show a link between these chemicals and plaque buildup in arteries, the red flag for heart disease, says Justice.
Like any enjoyable activity, playing with a dog can elevate levels of serotonin and dopamine -- nerve transmitters that are known to have pleasurable and calming properties, he tells WebMD.
"People take drugs like heroin and cocaine to raise serotonin and dopamine, but the healthy way to do it is to pet your dog, or hug your spouse, watch sunsets, or get around something beautiful in nature," says Justice, who recently hiked the Colorado Rockies with his wife and two dogs.
Good for the Heart
Heart attack patients w
ho have pets survive longer than those without, according to several studies. Male pet owners have less sign of heart disease -- lower triglyceride and cholesterol levels -- than non-owners, researchers say.
Dogs for the Aged
"Studies have sh
own that Alzheimer's patients have fewer anxious outbursts if there is an animal in the home," says Lynette Hart, PhD, associate professor at the University of California at Davis School of Veterinary Medicine.
"Their caregivers also feel less burdened when there is a pet, particularly if it is a cat, which generally requires less care than a dog," says Hart.
Date Magnets
Dogs are
great for making love connections. Forget Internet matchmaking -- a dog is a natural conversation starter.
This especially helps ease people out of social isolation or shyness, Nadine Kaslow, PhD, professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Emory University in Atlanta, tells WebMD.
"People ask about breed, they watch the dog's tricks," Kaslow says. "Sometimes the conversation stays at the 'dog level,' sometimes it becomes a real social interchange."







If you can't do this every day to reduce your stress








Do This...(Okay you don't need to adopt so many)

Please take the time to watch this short video and consider adopting a pet today.  Adopting a pet can save two lives; the pet and yours!!

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Saturday, October 6, 2012

Reducing Stress Part 4

Are you stressed?  Depressed?  Have anxiety in you life that you want to get rid of?  We have talked about way to reduce stress and here is another way to do that..... Exercise.  I know, I know.....this is the LAST thing you want to do.  After-all you don't have any energy because your stress, depression and anxiety has taken it all.  I promise you this....if you exercise you will feel better.



According to the Mayo Clinic (you know how much I love the Mayo Clinic):

How does exercise help depression and anxiety?
Exercise probably helps ease depression in a number of ways, which may include:
  • Releasing feel-good brain chemicals that may ease depression (neurotransmitters and endorphins)
  • Reducing immune system chemicals that can worsen depression
  • Increasing body temperature, which may have calming effects
Exercise has many psychological and emotional benefits too. It can help you:
  • Gain confidence. Meeting exercise goals or challenges, even small ones, can boost your self-confidence. Getting in shape can also make you feel better about your appearance.
  • Take your mind off worries. Exercise is a distraction that can get you away from the cycle of negative thoughts that feed anxiety and depression.
  • Get more social interaction. Exercise may give you the chance to meet or socialize with others. Just exchanging a friendly smile or greeting as you walk around your neighborhood can help your mood.
  • Cope in a healthy way. Doing something positive to manage anxiety or depression is a healthy coping strategy. Trying to feel better by drinking alcohol, dwelling on how badly you feel, or hoping anxiety or depression will go away on its own can lead to worsening symptoms.
I don't want to exercise:

You are in luck!  The Mayo Clinic has some suggestions:
What kind of exercise is best?
The word "exercise" may make you think of running laps around the gym. But exercise includes a wide range of activities that boost your activity level to help you feel better. Certainly running, lifting weights, playing basketball and other fitness activities that get your heart pumping can help. But so can gardening, washing your car, or strolling around the block and other less intense activities. Anything that gets you off the couch and moving is exercise that can help improve your mood.
You don't have to do all your exercise at once either. Broaden how you think of exercise and find ways to fit activity into your routine. Add small amounts of physical activity throughout your day. For example, take the stairs instead of the elevator. Park a little farther away from your work to fit in a short walk. Or, if you live close to your job, consider biking to work.
Not sure you want to?  What do you have to lose?  Stress, Depression, Anxiety...that's what!!  Give it a try and get healthy at the same time!

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Thursday, October 4, 2012

Reducing stress Part 3

There is one word in the English language that will help you reduce stress.  It helps you avoid many things that in life that could cause stress.

This word is NO!

I know, easier said than done but practice it with me....ready....set......NO!!



When you are asked to help volunteer AGAIN for a cause and your first thought is "ugh, is it that time already" or "I just don't have the time" say NO!  Saying no does NOT make you a bad person but saying yes could make you feel bad....and that bad is stress and you can't help anyone when you are not at your best.  Saying no may make you "feel bad" for the moment but will reduce your stress in the long run.

Another thing to say NO to is any conversation that "drains you" or will become a heated conversation.  Earlier we talked about avoiding the friend conversation who always has a problem.  I want to expand on that one.  Avoid ALL conversations that could lead to a heated discussion; religion & politics are good examples of this but your list may contain a few more topics.  If your are right wing and your friend is left wing this time of year is a difficult one.  When you are with your friend don't bring up the subject of politics.  If the subject is brought up, "wow. look at the time sorry but I need to get going."  Just say NO to those conversations.

Just say NO to the news if you find yourself worrying or getting upset or mad about everything on news.  Turn the channel or turn it off.  Trust me....if it is something you need to know it will be on again.  

Remember, you will not be ANY good to ANY one if you are stressed.  So remember this:

A:  Always
N:  No before 
Y:  Yes

ANY will allow you to say no first.  You will than be able to "think" about it without the immediate pressure of being in the moment.  

Come back and learn what you can do to reduce stress when you can't say NO.

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Monday, October 1, 2012

Reducing Stress Part 2



You have so much to do you just want to DO NOTHING
Some days you just have to do nothing. Other days it's time for a plan!
Words to live by (click here and come back and read)






I love this story:

A man came home from work and found his 3 children outside, still in their pyjamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn around garden, The door of his wife's car was open, as was the front door to the house and no
sign of the dog, walking in the door, he found ...an even bigger mess. A lamp had been knocked over, the throw rug was against one wall, In the front room the TV was on loudly with the cartoon channel, the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing. In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door. He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened. He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door. As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls. As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pyjamas, reading a novel... She looked up at him, smiled and asked how his day went. He looked at her bewildered and asked, 'What happened here today?' She again smiled and answered, 'You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world do I do all day?...
''Yes," was his incredulous reply..
She answered, 'Well, today I didn't do it.' ♥


So you do this occasionally....but what about the rest of the time?  What do you do to reduce your stress.

Prioritize you to do list:
  • Easy to do with a big impact
  • Easy to do with a small impact
  • Hard to do with a big impact
  • Hard to do with an easy impact
and you do your to-do list in this order.  Everybody's definition of "easy to do" and "impact" are different.  Personally unloading the dryer and/or dishwasher fall under the HARD TO DO column and I despise these chores so much it doesn't matter the impact.  

This can be done at home or at work.  No matter what is on your "to do" list and no matter where it is put it in these categories and tackle each one at a time.  The easy to do with a big impact list...once it is completed you will feel so much better because you accomplished a BIG IMPACT.  

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Saturday, September 29, 2012

Planning a vacation: reduce stress

There's no place like home, There's no place like home.  Well, Dorothy's vacation wasn't the relaxing one I know you are hoping for.  So how do you plan a vacation to reduce or eliminate stress without causing more stress?

First, and probably the most important is, what is your budget?  You can't have a relaxing vacation if you are worried about paying for it, right?


Okay, you have your budge in place.  Who is going with you?  Spouse for a couples get away?  Family vacation with children?  Friends get away?

What is relaxing for you?  The beach?  (My personal favorite) Skiing? Gambling?  Write down your top three ideal vacations and start your search.  Do you want all-inclusive where your meals and drinks are included?  Are you flying to your destination or driving?  How many days do you plan on being on vacation.  All this comes into play when planning a vacation and the more information you have the less stress it causes planning it.  

Are your vacation days set in stone or is there some wiggle room to them.  I will tell you this, the many vacations I have planned and gone on....I have received better deals by being flexible on my vacation days.

You know where you want to go.  Do want a package deal that includes airfare?  I always recommend that you look at both options.  There are many search engines out there that will compare prices for you.  I will tell you this...the longer they have been in business the more expensive it will be to use that site.  New "vacation" sites are offered better deals and they can pass those to you so check out the new ones.  (I found this great blog on Aruba if you are interested in going there).

If you are able to say "NO" Google "timeshare" deals.  These are usually, but not always, all-inclusive resorts and you can get some great deals if you agree to give them 90 minutes of your vacation time to hear about the "great timeshare" they have available to you.   I know, I know it never last only 90 minutes but remember you only committed to 90 minutes so no matter where you are in the presentation...when 90 minutes are up you leave.  You can get some great deals doing this but ONLY if you can find the great airline price.  Most timeshare deals are open dates so you can purchase the week, give them tentative dates (with the guarantee that you can change the dates at no cost).  

Time to check the airlines.  Yes, the internet is a wonderful tool.  BUT...I will be honest with you.  The best deals I have ever received was not on the internet....it was calling and talking to a live person.   For example:  Our last vacation to Mexico (told you I loved the beach) if I were to purchase the airline tickets on the internet they were $530.00 per person round trip, direct flight.  Not bad as the timeshare deal I got was $600.00 for both of us for the week (all-inclusive).  So total was about $1700.00 with taxes.  Not a bad deal.....UNTIL I called the airline that was offering this.  I spoke to a wonderful representative (Always ask them how they are doing...if they thank you stay with them.  If they don't, hang up and call back).  I explained what I wanted and said we are flexible in our dates by three days either way but we needed 8 days, 7 nights.  Ten minutes and...gonna love this.....later and after hearing "no, let me check something else" or "no, that isn't going to work" he comes back on and says.....How does $247.00 per person on these dates, flying direct, leaving at 8:30 am and returning at 4:00 PM sound to you.  WHAT!!!!  I couldn't book it fast enough.  Remember people have emotions, computers do not. So three phone calls; the first one was to the timeshare to buy the week, second one to the airline to book the flights and third was to the timeshare to confirm dates.  No stress because I asked the professional who knows his job better than any computer to help me.

I do STRONGLY encourage you to check out any hotel/resort BEFORE you book it.  I like tripadvisor.com.  You have to remember when going to this site:  SOME PEOPLE WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED.  For example:  I called AppleVacations.com (notice I said CALLED) and told them we wanted to vacation in Cancun and gave her our budget.  Apple Vacations is an all inclusive, round trip vacation travel company.  Okay maybe we were being too "cheap" this trip because we couldn't get to Cancun on what we wanted to spend BUT...here's the nice thing about talking to them: If we wanted to go to Cabo.....we could do it on our budget.  Done, booked and ready.  Didn't research our Resort because it was Secrets....5 star I'm there.  Went on tripadvisor.com and got nervous....horrible reviews.  Well, we were stuck.  Some people can never be satisfied....To date...the best resort we have ever stayed at.  Read the blog about that trip here.  I highly recommend contacting the people who wrote reviews about the resort/hotel.  They will tell you more in a personal email than they ever will on a website.


Vacations are a wonderful way to reduce stress as long as they do not cause more or additional stress going or planning one.  No matter where you want to go or what you want to do make your vacation the best.


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